Be an Inspiration

Have you ever been in a position where nothing you feel you can do is right?  When it seems like the stars have aligned against you in every way possible?  Have you ever felt like you are totally alone in the world?

No doubt that at some point in life, everyone has felt this way.  Whether it was a small issue that brought you down for a short period of time, or a life changing event that felt like it would never change, the feeling of being alone and tiny in a big world can be a game changer.

Have you ever looked around and wished you had it "as good" as others?  Have you wished for their luck in careers, finances or life in general?  Has watching someone else's "perfect" life happen in front of you made you dislike the person for a period of time?

How is it that when faced with conflict, issues or problems we can't seem to accept that in the moment maybe we are getting exactly what we have set ourselves up for, or the problem we deserved based on our actions?  It is way easier be jealous, to place blame or even hate others for the things we lack and the decisions that we make.

If the mirror could be reversed, it would be astounding the number of people who perceive you in the same way.  They are jealous of your positive qualities, perceive that luck is on your side and wish that for a period of time their life was as perfect as yours.

It is perfectly fine to have a life that appears envious, to project a sense of confidence and happiness.  An important thing to remember is that at times, life gets everyone down.  Next time you find yourself judging someone else, and projecting your unhappiness or displeasure with their successes, remember that life isn't easy.  Even the most perfect people have issues they are dealing with.  Chances are, if you took a few seconds to look behind you, someone is hanging in your shadow judging you in the same way.

Next time jealousy takes a step into your life, make a change.  It doesn't make sense to be jealous of what you don't know.  If you admire the life someone else leads, simply change your attitude and behaviour to mimic them.  Be an inspiration...push through the tough, admire your accomplishments and project your happiness onto others.  Not only will you feel better, that person in your shadow may learn something too!